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Fear? Why not Faith?  Fear is a negative feeling brought on by the possibility of danger, discomfort, or harm. Faith is believing unseen, when belief is there you can visualize the possibility.  Perhaps fear is the very last thing that motivates people. Motivating is more about energizing and  prompting people to do something for their betterment. Real Reason You Feel Alone Athletes are frequently inspired by their  trainers and coaches to perform at their  peak,  students are frequently inspired by  their tutors and parents to excel even  further, than before, lovers are frequently  inspired by one another to be more  devoted to their relationships, and  employees are frequently inspired by their  superiors to meet higher standards. While fear just intimidates, on the other  hand.  The use of fear as a weapon to  subdue people. A parent who uses a whip  to scare their kids will lose their affection. ...

Trending pre-wedding photos of a Catholic Reverend Sister who allegedly quit her religious profession to marry a police    Rofficer Abraham 1 January 9, 2020 9:49 am These photos showing a Catholic Reverend Sister who allegedly quit her religious profession and got married to an officer have gone viral online after they were shared by a social media user. In photos shared online, the woman could seen posing with her man in pre-wedding photos. Another shows her clad in her habit when she was still a Reverend Sister sworn to the oath of chastity.  

For the longest time, I believed that there’s only purpose of life: And that is to be happy. Right? Why else go through all the pain and hardship? It’s to achieve happiness in some way. And I’m not the only person who believed that. In fact, if you look around you, most people are pursuing happiness in their lives. That’s why we collectively buy shit we don’t need, go to bed with people we don’t love, and try to work hard to get approval of people we don’t like. Why do we do these things? To be honest, I don’t care what the exact reason is. I’m not a scientist. All I know is that it has something to do with history, culture, media, economy, psychology, politics, the information era, and you name it. The list is endless. We are who we are. Let’s just accept that. Most people love to analyze why people are not happy or don’t live fulfilling lives.  I don’t necessarily care about the why . I care more about  how  we can change. Jus t a few short ye...

Be yourself. This rather popular advice has damaged the quality of my life for a long time until I realized that it doesn’t work and is rather abstract Everyone, left and right, romanticizes this “ be yourself”  idea. But, tell me, how can you give a 13-year old teenager the advice “ be yourself” ? Half the world doesn’t know themselves, and you expect teenagers to “ be themselves ”? I was “ myself ” for some time. I jumped around cold people, I joked with serious people and then I realized human relationships don’t work that way. Many people will not understand you. With those kinds of people, you don’t be yourself. You follow social skills, unless you want to be hated by 99% of the world. You  can’t  be yourself with people who don’t understand humor. You just  can’t  tell everyone about ideas which they will abhor. Not everyone is you and you can’t be you with everyone. Unless, of course, if you don’t mind being hated by almost everyone you...

A Swiss woman who is married to a Nigerian from Anambra state, has shared her touching story after she thought she wouldn't have children because she was diagnosed with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome PCOS. According to woman who is now a mother of three including a set of twins, she shared her story in a bid to encourage other women who are waiting to get pregnant and tell them there is hope. Read what she shared online; There was a time in my life I thought I couldn't have children. My doctor told me I suffered from PCOS - the most common endocrine disorder among women between the ages 18 and 44 - and that my chances of having children were close to zero. When you are dreaming of starting your own family, the pain and heartache that go with such a diagnose are absolutely overwhelming. But as it turned out, God had a different plan for me. Today I am not only the proud mother of three children, but on top of that, I can proudly call myself mama ejima! This is a very p...

The season three of the reality TV show popularly called big bother naija is here again, do you have what it takes? The big brother naija crew announced this on their social media pages 6pm this evening. https://mobile.twitter.com/BBNaija/status/936279311933431808

1. The world doesn’t care…unless you make it. You might think you are really special, but others think exactly the same about themselves. Unless you prove otherwise, the world has heard your story before. If you want attention, earn it, or else, you are just part of everyone else’s background. You need to take of your body. 2. Your body has an expiration date. Your shield of youth is no longer impervious to the wear-and-tear of aging. 3. You need to feel comfortable being uncomfortable. Think about any form of art or literature you enjoy: books, movies, music, anything. What makes it interesting? There is some sort of conflict. Otherwise, it is boring. 4. The story of your life needs some tension too. In order to grow, you must challenge yourself. You lose your innocence. 5. I am no longer as innocent as I was when I was younger. I have been hurt and disappointed. Wisdom comes at the price of innocence. 6. Try not to have expectations of other...

Self control  SELF CONTROL : Choosing to do what is right when I feel like doing what is wrong. 1. Your crush is active now in facebook Messenger. She is being shown to green circle. But you don't send her a message. 2. You have deactivated all of your social media accounts but regularly feel the urge to reactivate your account again for a few minutes. But you are determined to keep away from social websites for years/months or quit social media. (I'm not saying it's wrong to be on social media but try to limit it.) 3. Avoid pornography and all sorts of erotic videos. 4. You finally quit smoking. But your mind gives you a signal for nicotine. But you keep your promise that you will not touch a cigarette again. 5.  When You have plenty of options to date but you focus on your studies instead of dating to avoid any potential distractions. ( Dating is not a bad idea but I guess it's better for students to concentrate more in studies) 6. Stop playing sm...

My house was about to be locked, just because I was not able to raise rent. I posted it on Facebook seeking for help, but all I got was 2likes and  0comments. So I sent 120 messages to friends on my contact list, requesting for a loan of N400,000. Sadly, only 10people replied. 6 out of the 10 claimed they couldn't help. Only 1 out of the 4 who said they could help actually gave me some money but the rest only gave me excuses and never picked my calls. Eventually, my house was locked. I had no where to sleep. I walked in the dark, seeking options and suddenly, a heavy storm carried me away and I died.   FAST FORWARD  The next day, news quickly spread around that I had died. 2220 people posted on my wall how they knew me. How great I was. A committee is formed by my "loyal" friends who quickly raised N1,200,000 via donations, to feed guests at my funeral. My colleagues at work teamed-up and brought another N300,000 for coffin, tents and chairs. I am buried in a cof...

Eagle are one of the strongest bird in the world, Here are some leadership fact we got to learn from Eagle. 1. Eagles fly Alone and at High Altitudes. They don't fly with sparrows, ravens, and other small birds. *MEANING*; Stay away from narrow-minded people, those that bring you down. Eagle flies with Eagles. Keep good company. 2. Eagles have an Accurate Vision.  They have the ability to focus on something as far as 5km away. No matter the obstacles, the eagle will not move his focus from the prey until he grabs it. *MEANING*; Have a vision and remain focused no matter what the obstacles and you will succeed. 3. Eagles do not Eat Dead things. They Feed only on Fresh Prey. *MEANING*; Do not rely on your past success, keep looking for new frontiers to conquer. Leave your past where it belongs, in the past. 4. Eagles Love the Storm. When clouds gather, the eagle gets excited, the eagle uses the storms wind to lift itself higher. Once it finds the wind of the...

See Photos of  Floyd Mayweather  amazing wine cellar in his new $26million mansion in Beverly Hills Floyd Mayweather has started living the luxurious life in his newly acquired $26million mansion in Beverly Hills. The retired boxer who made $300 million from his Conor McGregor fight shared photos of him relaxing in the 15,000 square French Modern home. The 40-year-old also showed off his amazing storage room for wine in bottles. The mansion which boasts of six bedrooms features a formal dining room with 10 sets of French doors, along with a paneled library and a family room featuring a cocktail bar and others. See more photos below..

              PATIENCE.  A 30-year-old man visited his old father who could no longer see very well. As both of them sat in front of his house chatting, a dove flew in and perched on the window. The old man asked his son, "Is that a dove that perched on the window?". The son replied, "Yes dad". After a short while, he asked the son the same question a second time and got the same answer. When he asked the same question the third time, his son became angry and rebuked him saying, "This is why I hate visiting you, you keep repeating questions!" The old man was silent for about 10 minutes, and then he asked the son to go into his bedroom and fetch his old diary. The son did as he requested. Then he asked him to read page 2 of the diary. The words read: "My son is 3 years old today. As we sat in front of the house playing, a dove flew in and perched on the window. My son asked me 30 times if it was a dove. I gladly replied "yes" to each q...

THIS ARE THE TOP DECISION I HAVE EVER MADE 1. Stopped chasing all girls, choose one and make here your choice.  2.  Always try to learn something new.  3. focused on my passion.  4. Started meditation and limit use of social media.  5. Promise to find happiness from little things in life.  6. Searched for peace of mind , left all the expectations from myself  and others.  Drop yours let see your best decisions to inspire others... 

Effective learning. This is the most crucial meta skill you should know:  Learn how to learn. In the age of rapid advancement,  the ones who take up new skills the most efficiently win.  In fact, many of the things that you learn now will be obsolete in 5 years. Everyone’s different.  Find ways which work the best for you.  Even though it takes time, everyone can master this skill. Time management. We are living in abundance - abundant information, abundant opportunity, abundant food, abundant network, abundant everything. The abundance exceeds the amount which you can consume or make use of , hence making management extremely important today. Whatever you’re doing, make time your friend, not enemy. Explore productivity tools. More importantly, build up your  focusing skill . A focused man can move mountains. Money management. Spend less than you earn. Understand how money works.  Position yourself so that money flows towards you,...

Wake up early! by maintaining this habits for at least 21days, your body would automatically adjust to it and it’ll become your biological wake up time eventually. EXERCISE! our brain works similar to muscle, in which the more we train it the more it will expands and would enable you to retain more information and remember more. Eat healthy. you are what you eat. period. Pay attention to who you spend your time with. For example, if you want to be a successful writer, you wont be benefitted by hanging out with a bartender or university student. Choose wisely. Always seek the good in people. It is better to think that someone is good and turns out they are bad, rather than thinking someone is bad and turns out they are good. Hope thats help.

There is always things  That one can not recover if you have lost it 1. the WORD after its said, 2. The MOMENT after its missed, and  3. the TIME after its gone.  Have a Nice Day !

Use people’s name. It works. Always call them by name.  Always greet people with a flooding smile a second after you look at them. Take time to register their face then warm up your face with a genuine smile. Have “sticky eyes” with people you want closer ties to. This means looking at them periodically throughout a conversation in a group setting like your eyes are stuck to them (in a friendly and curious way). Put other people in the spotlight. Act like they are the most interesting person in the world and show that you genuinely want to know about their lives through curious and open-ended questions. Show open body language. Feet open and apart, and open your hands palms up to seem friendly. Listen to the other person. Truly listen. Take part in active listening and show that you are listening by repeating what they said in a question. Person A: Yeah, I love sports and I really enjoy surfing, I went last year in Hawaii. Person B: Wow, so you spent a lot of time...

Nnamdi Ezeigbo is the founder and CEO of SLOT systems limited, and also the brain behind TECNO and INFINIX, the fastest selling phone brands in Nigeria. Many people are not even aware that these popular phone brands are the brainchild of a fellow Nigerian. His success story is a very remarkable one. Nnamdi Ezeigbo studied Electrical Electronics Engineering at the Yaba College of Technology in 1988, and got a Higher National Diploma (HND), before serving his country, Nigeria, during his National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) year at Guinness Nigeria PLC, in 1996. After completing his youth service year, Nnamdi Ezeigbo tried to no avail to secure a job with a company in Nigeria. With no promising signs of any potential employment, he went on to work as an apprentice learning how to repair computers. After which he launched out on his own to repair computers for individuals.  Since he didn’t have any cash at the time, he had to squat with a friend of his at Ikeja, who owned a...

The Head Pastor of Mount Zion Faith Ministries, Pastor Mike Bamiloye has shared his thoughts on the Big Brother Naija. According to him, he hopes Nigerian pastors won't use Efe's victory to make reference as work of God's grace because the Big Brother Naija glamorized and glorified immorality. Pastor Mike hopes the Children of the Kingdom will not begin to envy this type of world glories. The reality show which kicked off in January and ran for 11 weeks, came to an end on April 9, 2017, with Efe emerging the winner. Efe beat other finalists Bisola, TBoss, Marvis and Debie-Rise to win the grand prize

Stay away from Anger.. It hurts ..Only You! If you are right then there is no need to get angry, And even if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry. Patience with family is love, Patience with others is respect. Patience with self is confidence and Patience with GOD is faith. Never Think Hard about the PAST, It brings Tears... Don't think more about the FUTURE, It brings Fear... Live this Moment with a Smile,It brings Cheer.... Every test in our life makes us bitter Or better. Every problem comes to make us Or break us. The choice is ours whether we become victims or victorious. Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful. Do you know why God created gaps between fingers? So that someone who is special to you comes and fills those by gaps by holding your hand forever. Happiness keeps You Sweet.. But being sweet brings happiness. Thanks for reading