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Be yourself. This rather popular advice has damaged the quality of my life for a long time until I realized that it doesn’t work and is rather abstract Everyone, left and right, romanticizes this “ be yourself”  idea. But, tell me, how can you give a 13-year old teenager the advice “ be yourself” ? Half the world doesn’t know themselves, and you expect teenagers to “ be themselves ”? I was “ myself ” for some time. I jumped around cold people, I joked with serious people and then I realized human relationships don’t work that way. Many people will not understand you. With those kinds of people, you don’t be yourself. You follow social skills, unless you want to be hated by 99% of the world. You  can’t  be yourself with people who don’t understand humor. You just  can’t  tell everyone about ideas which they will abhor. Not everyone is you and you can’t be you with everyone. Unless, of course, if you don’t mind being hated by almost everyone you...

You are in your late 20s and early 30s and almost all your friends are married; including that ugly, short and fat Jane! Yet you think you are a good wife material, but you are still single and getting really worried. Well, MAYBE guys are not looking your way because you are guilty of a number of these offenses: 1. YOU ARE TOO HAUGHTY. Typically, you will quickly size up a guy and bring him down with intimidating looks and sarcastic responses. Well, I suggest you marry yourself. 2. YOU ARE LOOKING FOR MR. PERFECT. You want a rich, well-built, neat, romantic, hardworking, honest, God-fearing, faithful, dark, tall and handsome gentleman from a good background who has a good job, drive a good car and loves you unconditionally. I’m afraid that perfect guy you read about in a romantic novel doesn't exist. Wake up gurl. You’ll never find a perfect guy – anywhere. Just like you, everyone else is imperfect. Accept that fact or marry the guy in your novel. 3. YOU SMELL DESPERATE....

Internet kills your time faster than anything else. At a single click, you can watch your favorite TV episodes back to back, stalk your friends on Facebook and get stuck in the rabbit hole that is YouTube. It’s like a never-ending rollercoaster of distraction. What people don’t realize is that excessive internet surfing works just like any other addiction. It hacks the reward system in our brain and makes us feel unmotivated to engage in real world activities – socializing, exercise, working – the things that fuel personal growth. In fact, internet addiction has a strong impact on stress, depression, and anxiety. Here are five ways to stop wasting time on the internet: 1. Set Strict Boundaries For Online Work Set a time frame for work only e.g. 7AM – 4PM.  You can have free time before or after this set time. Every time you stick to this plan you are developing strength, developing a habit after a week or two it will come naturally. If it’s hard, work in short, 20-...

Self control  SELF CONTROL : Choosing to do what is right when I feel like doing what is wrong. 1. Your crush is active now in facebook Messenger. She is being shown to green circle. But you don't send her a message. 2. You have deactivated all of your social media accounts but regularly feel the urge to reactivate your account again for a few minutes. But you are determined to keep away from social websites for years/months or quit social media. (I'm not saying it's wrong to be on social media but try to limit it.) 3. Avoid pornography and all sorts of erotic videos. 4. You finally quit smoking. But your mind gives you a signal for nicotine. But you keep your promise that you will not touch a cigarette again. 5.  When You have plenty of options to date but you focus on your studies instead of dating to avoid any potential distractions. ( Dating is not a bad idea but I guess it's better for students to concentrate more in studies) 6. Stop playing sm...

Please, carefully look into the list below to see where you may want to make amends on yourself or the young ones you are caring for. Children, if not properly groomed may never get to the top in life, even if the parents are at the top of their career. Manners take you to where your education can't take you, irrespective of your status, money or the "who you know" factor. This is not meant to hurt anyone or pinpoint on someone for their upbringing. Its a general message targeted to all the parents of today. 1.Going to your child's school dressed indecently? Think again. 2. Speaking rashly to your child's teacher. 3. Cursing, using foul words or swearing in front of your children. 4. Using makeup on children. 5. Dressing with tight clothes and indecently for children (they loose the sense of their princesshood and may not listen to you in future). 7. Your child holds the cup or glassware by the brim and you don't make a correction. 8. You...

Loadedchuks.com  A 30-year-old man visited his old father who could no longer see very well. As both of them sat in front of his house chatting, a dove flew in and perched on the window. The old man asked his son, "Is that a dove that perched on the window?". The son replied, "Yes dad". After a short while, he asked the son the same question a second time and got the same answer. When he asked the same question the third time, his son became angry and rebuked him saying, "This is why I hate visiting you, you keep repeating questions!" The old man was silent for about 10 minutes, and then he asked the son to go into his bedroom and fetch his old diary. The son did as he requested. Then he asked him to read page 2 of the diary. The words read: "My son is 3 years old today. As we sat in front of the house playing, a dove flew in and perched on the window. My son asked me 30 times if it was a dove. I gladly replied "yes" to each question...

Airtel has yet introduced a new package called  SmartRecharge , which is also tagged as  #DoAnyHow . This package offers subscribers 10times the value on your recharge for voice and data. There have been video advert going on regarding this package. It explains more on how the package works as well as how to activate it. This package is more better than  SmartConnect 2.0  that gives just 6times bonus and  SmartConnect 4.0  that gives 8times bonus on any recharge. Airtel is really trying to take the position of grandmaster of Voice plus Data, which at the same time will attract new customers to them. Airtel SmartRecharge is yet another awoof package that offers you 10 times value or bonus on your recharge amount. According to Airtel; Call. Connect. Download. With smartRecharge we give you 10times more on your recharge value for voice and data! Now you have even more to Stream. Dance. Sing. Basically Do AnyHow! Dial *220*PIN# to recharge and get your bonu...

 Moimoi or Moyi-Moyi is a Nigerian steamed bean pudding made from a mixture of washed and peeled black-eyed peas, onions and fresh ground peppers (usually a combination of bell peppers and chili or scotch bonnet). It is a protein-rich food that is a staple in Nigeria. This is steps to step on how to make moi moi. STEP 1... BEANS    -  LIKE  5 CUPS OR MORE GRANDNUT OIL   -  1/2 MILK CUP FRESH FISH  -  1 OR 2 MEDIUM SIZE SHOMBE   -  TO TASTE  (10 - 15 pieces will be enough for that 5 cups) MIX SPICE  -  HALF TABLE SPOON (Ingredients) CURRY POWDER  (OPTIONAL)  -  HALF TABLE SPOON CRAYFISH   -  ENOUGH TO SERVE PEPPER   -  TO TASTE SALT   -  TO TASTE FOIL STEP 2.. Method of preparation. Soak beans for about 10 mins, wash and remove the epicarp (back of the beans), add Onion, pepper shombe, crayfish, debone the fish and add to it. (remove the b...

Eagle are one of the strongest bird in the world, Here are some leadership fact we got to learn from Eagle. 1. Eagles fly Alone and at High Altitudes. They don't fly with sparrows, ravens, and other small birds. *MEANING*; Stay away from narrow-minded people, those that bring you down. Eagle flies with Eagles. Keep good company. 2. Eagles have an Accurate Vision.  They have the ability to focus on something as far as 5km away. No matter the obstacles, the eagle will not move his focus from the prey until he grabs it. *MEANING*; Have a vision and remain focused no matter what the obstacles and you will succeed. 3. Eagles do not Eat Dead things. They Feed only on Fresh Prey. *MEANING*; Do not rely on your past success, keep looking for new frontiers to conquer. Leave your past where it belongs, in the past. 4. Eagles Love the Storm. When clouds gather, the eagle gets excited, the eagle uses the storms wind to lift itself higher. Once it finds the wind of the...

              PATIENCE.  A 30-year-old man visited his old father who could no longer see very well. As both of them sat in front of his house chatting, a dove flew in and perched on the window. The old man asked his son, "Is that a dove that perched on the window?". The son replied, "Yes dad". After a short while, he asked the son the same question a second time and got the same answer. When he asked the same question the third time, his son became angry and rebuked him saying, "This is why I hate visiting you, you keep repeating questions!" The old man was silent for about 10 minutes, and then he asked the son to go into his bedroom and fetch his old diary. The son did as he requested. Then he asked him to read page 2 of the diary. The words read: "My son is 3 years old today. As we sat in front of the house playing, a dove flew in and perched on the window. My son asked me 30 times if it was a dove. I gladly replied "yes" to each q...

Making more money on your blog is not just placing ads alone but with promotion of products and content you can increase your income. Blogging has become a money making idea for young minds in the community today using their skills to sell what they can do but you don't just blog without having a creative idea on how it works most especially when you don't understand how to reach your audience at large. Recently we at zealmat received an email inviting us to participate in thier net work and we were very strict about it and we made a little research that lead us to our final conclusion and today we will show you how to make money from this network. This platform allow you to earn money aside from just sponsor post alone. We have different opportunities like video sponsorship, social  media and even referral too which could increase your chances of making more than you expect. Step 1 First you need the following Or if you don't have some you can skip it. Facebook Account...

THIS ARE THE TOP DECISION I HAVE EVER MADE 1. Stopped chasing all girls, choose one and make here your choice.  2.  Always try to learn something new.  3. focused on my passion.  4. Started meditation and limit use of social media.  5. Promise to find happiness from little things in life.  6. Searched for peace of mind , left all the expectations from myself  and others.  Drop yours let see your best decisions to inspire others... 

Effective learning. This is the most crucial meta skill you should know:  Learn how to learn. In the age of rapid advancement,  the ones who take up new skills the most efficiently win.  In fact, many of the things that you learn now will be obsolete in 5 years. Everyone’s different.  Find ways which work the best for you.  Even though it takes time, everyone can master this skill. Time management. We are living in abundance - abundant information, abundant opportunity, abundant food, abundant network, abundant everything. The abundance exceeds the amount which you can consume or make use of , hence making management extremely important today. Whatever you’re doing, make time your friend, not enemy. Explore productivity tools. More importantly, build up your  focusing skill . A focused man can move mountains. Money management. Spend less than you earn. Understand how money works.  Position yourself so that money flows towards you,...

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1. One book a day keep stupidity away.. 2. Keep working until you can't work. 3. Read failed stories; it helps more than success stories. 4. In your free time, watch TED. 5. Improve your listening skills. 6. Have smart friends , more than funny ones. 7. Learn how to keep your money in your purse. 8. Don't learn new languages; improve your original one. 9. Deal with word ''donkey'' as compliment. 10. Talk to grandparents or old people as much you can.

There is always things  That one can not recover if you have lost it 1. the WORD after its said, 2. The MOMENT after its missed, and  3. the TIME after its gone.  Have a Nice Day !

Use people’s name. It works. Always call them by name.  Always greet people with a flooding smile a second after you look at them. Take time to register their face then warm up your face with a genuine smile. Have “sticky eyes” with people you want closer ties to. This means looking at them periodically throughout a conversation in a group setting like your eyes are stuck to them (in a friendly and curious way). Put other people in the spotlight. Act like they are the most interesting person in the world and show that you genuinely want to know about their lives through curious and open-ended questions. Show open body language. Feet open and apart, and open your hands palms up to seem friendly. Listen to the other person. Truly listen. Take part in active listening and show that you are listening by repeating what they said in a question. Person A: Yeah, I love sports and I really enjoy surfing, I went last year in Hawaii. Person B: Wow, so you spent a lot of time...

Stay away from Anger.. It hurts ..Only You! If you are right then there is no need to get angry, And even if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry. Patience with family is love, Patience with others is respect. Patience with self is confidence and Patience with GOD is faith. Never Think Hard about the PAST, It brings Tears... Don't think more about the FUTURE, It brings Fear... Live this Moment with a Smile,It brings Cheer.... Every test in our life makes us bitter Or better. Every problem comes to make us Or break us. The choice is ours whether we become victims or victorious. Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful. Do you know why God created gaps between fingers? So that someone who is special to you comes and fills those by gaps by holding your hand forever. Happiness keeps You Sweet.. But being sweet brings happiness. Thanks for reading

Below are 8 habits that harm your brain that you might not be aware of : (1) Not Sleeping Well Lack of proper sleep is a bad habit that can significantly hurt your brain. It negatively affects the hippo-campus causing a deficit that leads to forgetfulness. Having Too Much Time to Yourself (2) Alone time can be great for thinking : Reflection and mapping out your dreams and goals. However, when the solitude is too much it can damage the mind and body. It can typically cause brain decline, affect the quality and efficiency of sleep making it less restorative, erode arteries, create high blood pressure, undermine learning and memory and generally take a toll on health; although, most of these effects are gradual and experienced over the course of time. (3) Eating Too Much Junk Food Regardless of the fact that you are the kind of person that can eat whatever you like and remain in shape, it is important not be excessive in your intake of junk foods. This is because parts of brain linked to...

I have spent all of my previous semesters as a student of Obafemi Awolowo University living on campus, and witnessing both the awesomeness and horrors of students living in the famous halls of residence. Life’s pretty harsh around here, I’ve seen people go an entire day on an empty stomach, whilst still chasing multiple lectures in multiple locations, and after it all, they return to their rooms to soak Gari in the murky “Omole water” (named after the erstwhile Vice-Chancellor), and paltry peanuts and sugar. Pile all that on top of the misery of the current economic recession and growing inflation, resources dry up fast, and students end up drained, emaciated, in poor psychological state, overall in very bad shape. It’s a hard life. But you should learn to afford yourself as much comfort as possible. 1- Manage your resources All fingers are not equal. This saying is too popular to be forgotten, and yet many students have no value f...