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Be yourself. This rather popular advice has damaged the quality of my life for a long time until I realized that it doesn’t work and is rather abstract Everyone, left and right, romanticizes this “ be yourself”  idea. But, tell me, how can you give a 13-year old teenager the advice “ be yourself” ? Half the world doesn’t know themselves, and you expect teenagers to “ be themselves ”? I was “ myself ” for some time. I jumped around cold people, I joked with serious people and then I realized human relationships don’t work that way. Many people will not understand you. With those kinds of people, you don’t be yourself. You follow social skills, unless you want to be hated by 99% of the world. You  can’t  be yourself with people who don’t understand humor. You just  can’t  tell everyone about ideas which they will abhor. Not everyone is you and you can’t be you with everyone. Unless, of course, if you don’t mind being hated by almost everyone you...

Internet kills your time faster than anything else. At a single click, you can watch your favorite TV episodes back to back, stalk your friends on Facebook and get stuck in the rabbit hole that is YouTube. It’s like a never-ending rollercoaster of distraction. What people don’t realize is that excessive internet surfing works just like any other addiction. It hacks the reward system in our brain and makes us feel unmotivated to engage in real world activities – socializing, exercise, working – the things that fuel personal growth. In fact, internet addiction has a strong impact on stress, depression, and anxiety. Here are five ways to stop wasting time on the internet: 1. Set Strict Boundaries For Online Work Set a time frame for work only e.g. 7AM – 4PM.  You can have free time before or after this set time. Every time you stick to this plan you are developing strength, developing a habit after a week or two it will come naturally. If it’s hard, work in short, 20-...

The season three of the reality TV show popularly called big bother naija is here again, do you have what it takes? The big brother naija crew announced this on their social media pages 6pm this evening. https://mobile.twitter.com/BBNaija/status/936279311933431808

Please, carefully look into the list below to see where you may want to make amends on yourself or the young ones you are caring for. Children, if not properly groomed may never get to the top in life, even if the parents are at the top of their career. Manners take you to where your education can't take you, irrespective of your status, money or the "who you know" factor. This is not meant to hurt anyone or pinpoint on someone for their upbringing. Its a general message targeted to all the parents of today. 1.Going to your child's school dressed indecently? Think again. 2. Speaking rashly to your child's teacher. 3. Cursing, using foul words or swearing in front of your children. 4. Using makeup on children. 5. Dressing with tight clothes and indecently for children (they loose the sense of their princesshood and may not listen to you in future). 7. Your child holds the cup or glassware by the brim and you don't make a correction. 8. You...

Loadedchuks.com  A 30-year-old man visited his old father who could no longer see very well. As both of them sat in front of his house chatting, a dove flew in and perched on the window. The old man asked his son, "Is that a dove that perched on the window?". The son replied, "Yes dad". After a short while, he asked the son the same question a second time and got the same answer. When he asked the same question the third time, his son became angry and rebuked him saying, "This is why I hate visiting you, you keep repeating questions!" The old man was silent for about 10 minutes, and then he asked the son to go into his bedroom and fetch his old diary. The son did as he requested. Then he asked him to read page 2 of the diary. The words read: "My son is 3 years old today. As we sat in front of the house playing, a dove flew in and perched on the window. My son asked me 30 times if it was a dove. I gladly replied "yes" to each question...

TBOSS AND ELLYMAN TBoss the Big brother Naija 2017 finalist and made man music group and IMO records Afro pop Reggae artist in Adorable pictures. Could it be that Ellyman is dating TBOSS? SEE MORE PHOTOS :

              PATIENCE.  A 30-year-old man visited his old father who could no longer see very well. As both of them sat in front of his house chatting, a dove flew in and perched on the window. The old man asked his son, "Is that a dove that perched on the window?". The son replied, "Yes dad". After a short while, he asked the son the same question a second time and got the same answer. When he asked the same question the third time, his son became angry and rebuked him saying, "This is why I hate visiting you, you keep repeating questions!" The old man was silent for about 10 minutes, and then he asked the son to go into his bedroom and fetch his old diary. The son did as he requested. Then he asked him to read page 2 of the diary. The words read: "My son is 3 years old today. As we sat in front of the house playing, a dove flew in and perched on the window. My son asked me 30 times if it was a dove. I gladly replied "yes" to each q...

THIS ARE THE TOP DECISION I HAVE EVER MADE 1. Stopped chasing all girls, choose one and make here your choice.  2.  Always try to learn something new.  3. focused on my passion.  4. Started meditation and limit use of social media.  5. Promise to find happiness from little things in life.  6. Searched for peace of mind , left all the expectations from myself  and others.  Drop yours let see your best decisions to inspire others... 

True love is something that all people search for, especially when they are young. It should be mentioned that men and women have different attitude to love. It is a well-known fact that boys love with their eyes and girls love with their ears. That means all the words we hear from our guys are very important to us and we take everything serious. Being trustful, women can easily fall in love and give their heart away to those men who don’t deserve their great affection. Don’t let your feelings and emotions prevail over your mind or finally you will get disappointed and frustrated. Consider the following reasons why you shouldn’t give your heart away so easily and you will manage to avoid big mistakes in your life. MEN ARE LUSTFUL. It’s not a secret that men are lustful and we can’t do anything with this. Due to this fact you shouldn’t trust them so quickly. Surely, I don’t want to say that all men are the same, but it is quite natural that most of them at first pay much attenti...

1. One book a day keep stupidity away.. 2. Keep working until you can't work. 3. Read failed stories; it helps more than success stories. 4. In your free time, watch TED. 5. Improve your listening skills. 6. Have smart friends , more than funny ones. 7. Learn how to keep your money in your purse. 8. Don't learn new languages; improve your original one. 9. Deal with word ''donkey'' as compliment. 10. Talk to grandparents or old people as much you can.

Use people’s name. It works. Always call them by name.  Always greet people with a flooding smile a second after you look at them. Take time to register their face then warm up your face with a genuine smile. Have “sticky eyes” with people you want closer ties to. This means looking at them periodically throughout a conversation in a group setting like your eyes are stuck to them (in a friendly and curious way). Put other people in the spotlight. Act like they are the most interesting person in the world and show that you genuinely want to know about their lives through curious and open-ended questions. Show open body language. Feet open and apart, and open your hands palms up to seem friendly. Listen to the other person. Truly listen. Take part in active listening and show that you are listening by repeating what they said in a question. Person A: Yeah, I love sports and I really enjoy surfing, I went last year in Hawaii. Person B: Wow, so you spent a lot of time...

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But this guy can lie o..Oga Raetunechi,you can lie for Africa, I hail you

Lol this one weak me o. When the Eyo is over and the spirits go home as a normal human being.

Lol...like seriously?

This wedding invitation of a Nigerian couple set to wed on the 27th of this month is currently trending online. Esther and Mark decided to come up with a unique hilarious invitation. Read what is written on the card

This is the Difference Between A White Guy And Nigerian Guy When Wooing A Lady

As seen on the sun daily newspaper. Is this for real?

Lol....its like the whistleblowers has made most wealthy men in this country shrink into their shells. Its not a small something..lol

See Gobe o